hello!! i'm so sorry for such a late reply! i am by no means an admin, though i do participate in this group often! Little-Rama is on a partial hiatus, it seems, so they've been unresponsive for quite a while! i'd love to assist you but all i can give is brief reassurance as Rama's friend that we'd love to have you in the group! if it were up to me, i'd say yes, of course you can have the hermaphrodite ban! but i am unable to confirm whether or not you can have it because i am not an admin! so i suppose this is just me saying that you're not unnoticed and Little-Rama and i would love to have you here!!! so sorry, too ;-;